One person tries so hard to be involved in the life of someone they think is their friend... they truly care about them... they're that shoulder to cry on... that person to vent to... they always ask what's going on in the other person's life. However, person number 2 takes this for granted... doesn't put forth any effort... doesn't care about their supposed friend... or at least doesn't show it...
I often find myself on the giving side of this situation... once someone becomes my friend, I try so hard to be there for them... no matter what, I care about them and would do anything for them. I've come to realize that I often don't get that in return. Yet I sit there, day after day, trying my hardest to be the best friend I can... but is it really worth the effort? I've finally come to the point where I've been able to see this in my life... and I'm not gonna spend any more seconds of my life caring about ones that don't care about me.
Everyone has at least one of these friendships, I'm sure. Everyone has been on both sides too I'm sure. So for your sake, take a close look at each of your friendships... and ask... is it really a friendship... and not just a onesided exchange.
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One sided friendships suck.
Even more so when you and the other person are "interested" in each other.
I've found it best to just stay away from those types of people. But that's just me.
Yeah...
Well I've finally realized that, and am trying my best to avoid those situations.
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